I filed taxes but I used my boyfriend dasher direct I just read that they disabled dasher direct deposit will my money still come to dasher direct deposit or be mailed.

You mention that you used your BF's account.   Sending an income tax refund to someone else's account is not a good idea.   And...now his account has been closed.   The refund has likely been sent back and a check will have to be mailed to the address you used on your tax return.   If you chose to pay your TurboTax fees by having them deducted from your federal refund, the refund would be sent back to the third party bank that handles refund processing.   That bank can either send you a check or send your refund back to the IRS, and then the IRS has to issue and mail you a check.   If you did not use refund processing, then the refund would be sent back to the IRS and you will be getting a check from the IRS.   All of this means your refund is delayed, probably for weeks.  Sorry.

Watch your mailbox and open all mail, even it it looks like junk mail.

What is Refund Processing Service?

Santa Barbara Tax Products Group, LLC  (SBTPG) is the bank that handles the Refund Processing Service when you choose to have your TurboTax fees deducted from your refund. This option also has an additional charge from the bank that processes the transaction. 

You can contact them SBTPG, toll-free, at 1-877-908-7228 or go to their secure website www.sbtpg.com 

DEPOSIT TO SOMEONE ELSE’S ACCOUNT

https://ttlc.intuit.com/turbotax-support/en-us/help-article/tax-refund/deposit-tax-refund-someone-else-account/L3pAkqG74_US_en_US?uid=m6co06vs

Here is what the IRS says about entering incorrect banking information

https://www.irs.gov/help-resources/tools-faqs/faqs-for-individuals/frequently-asked-tax-questions-answers/irs-procedures/refund-inquiries/refund-inquiries-18